Professional Training Manual

The RELATE Foundational Training Manual

A structured clinical intervention framework for Pathological Demand Avoidance. Sixteen chapters, five assessment instruments, the ADAPT triage protocol, and complete implementation guides. Now available in print.

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Paperback

For Clinicians, Educators & Teams

The complete RELATE clinical training manual. Professional-quality paperback, shipped directly to you.

16-chapter training manual
RELATE Assessment — Clinician Version
RELATE Assessment — Parent Report Version
RELATE Assessment — Adult Self-Report
ADAPT Decision Card
Quick Reference Cards (one per pillar)
48-Hour Demand Audit worksheet
Supporter Self-Assessment
Outcome Tracking instruments

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What's Inside

Three-part clinical curriculum

Part I: Understanding PDA

Chapters 1–3. The nervous system model, autonomy as a biological need, demand sensitivity mechanisms, and why traditional behavioral approaches cause harm in PDA.

Part II: The RELATE Framework

Chapters 4–11. Deep training on each of the six pillars, the ADAPT triage protocol, and three application modes: supporter-to-person, self-directed, and therapeutic relationship.

Part III: Implementation

Chapters 12-16. Supporter self-assessment, the RELATE Assessment walkthrough, phased implementation, rupture and repair, troubleshooting, and the complete decision tree.

Questions

Frequently asked

Is this available on Amazon?

Yes. The manual is available on Amazon in both paperback and Kindle formats.

Can I get copies for my team?

Yes. Order one copy per team member. For organizations purchasing five or more copies, contact us at info@relatepda.com for volume pricing. Live team training is also available at relatepda.com/training.

Does it qualify for CE credits?

CE accreditation is currently in process. The live training packages are being developed with CE eligibility in mind. Check back for updates or join our mailing list to be notified.

What format is the manual?

Professional-quality paperback, 196 pages, 8.5 x 11 inches. Printed on white uncoated paper with a matte cover. All assessment instruments and worksheets are included in the book and designed to be photocopied for clinical use.

Is RELATE evidence-based?

RELATE is evidence-informed — it draws on established research in attachment science, intolerance of uncertainty, affective neuroscience, and trauma-informed care. No randomized controlled trials exist for RELATE or for any structured PDA intervention. The entire PDA intervention field is pre-RCT. RELATE is transparent about this.

I'm a parent. Is this for me?

This manual is designed for professionals trained in the RELATE model. If you're a parent or caregiver, our parent book "It's Not Defiance" is available now.